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How to enjoy BDSM with your partner at home

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The perception of sado-masochism of BDSM as a perversion is long gone. Modern medicine recognizes sado-masochism as a full-fledged type of sexual expression of a healthy person, naturally, only when partners enter into such relationships solely by mutual consent.

By sado-masochistic paraphernalia refers to devices for binding and flagellation. Their assortment is diverse: handcuffs, gags, belts, fixings, collars, masks, small and large lashes, soft and hard. Materials for the manufacture of this type of product are: leather, nylon, metal, imitation leather and latex.

In general, devices for binding and scourging are intended for people who like the aggressiveness of BDSM and BDSM, for those who simply do not have enough adrenaline in their blood.

Psychologists have shown that each person is more or less prone to violence or submission. It is the sexual games, with the use of one or sadomasochistic paraphernalia, allow implementing these tendencies in a safe manner. With the help of such toys, a person can get sexual pleasure without feeling any guilt. Who likes to obey puts on handcuffs or shackles. Who likes to dominate and who likes the smell of leather wears a mask, panties or other leather clothes. Often, a blender is referred to as a strap-on, but it is not. They can enjoy BDSM activities with homemade sex toys like homemade swing.

The main attributes of BDSM

  • Whips and spikes
  • Stacks
  • Handcuffs and restraints
  • Leggings and Shackles
  • Collars
  • Masks glasses helmets
  • Gagged
  • Nipple clamps
  • Clips for labia
  • Electrical stimulators

Other sado-maso products are becoming increasingly popular. These are erotic furniture and various types of leather and rubber (latex) clothing. Erotic jewelry comes in two forms: those that require skin piercing so-called piercing and those that do not require piercing non-piercing. This catalog contains clips and clips on the chest, navel and genitals, dressing which does not require a special piercing of the skin. Erotic jewelry is used as an addition to erotic lingerie or independently. Breast clips with vibrator are used for additional nipple stimulation. Clips on the labia serve as a spicy visual stimulant for a partner.

The basis of success in the style of sado-maso and bdsm is the passion and relaxedness of partners, which gives a whole palette of unforgettable impressions. Bristle whip or flogger will bring a lot of impressions. But if you want to, then take a stack.

How to use nozzles and rings?

Erotic rings and penis attachments with varying degrees of surface ribbing are used to further stimulate the vaginal walls during intercourse and accelerate the onset of orgasm in women, as well as to maintain the state of maximum erection in men. Rings and nozzles are stretched, and then put on under the head, on the base or on the body of the phallus (depending on the design), which is in a state of excitement.

Application Tips:

  • The product should be treated with an antiseptic (for example, Miramistin, chlorhexidine or a lubricant containing these substances) when first used or when it is transferred to another person.
  • Before and after use, the product must be treated with warm water and soap.
  • Do not use as a lubricant is not intended specifically for this substance, it can damage both the material from which the product is made, and your health.
  • Be careful! Do not remove the rings and attachments immediately after sexual intercourse and do not use them continuously during prolonged intercourse. The effect of maintaining an erection is achieved by squeezing the blood vessels. Prolonged absence of normal blood circulation can lead to unpleasant consequences.
  • Do not use during anal sex, they may slip off and remain in the body of your partner.
  • Treatment with alcoholic solutions and boiling water is not recommended.

Options for using erection rings:

  • Before use: It is important to remember that prolonged wearing of rings can lead to injury and irreversible effects. Therefore, control the level of compression and usage time.
  • The classic form of location is the usual position of the ring on the penis in front of the scrotum;
  • The next option is to place the ring on the penis trunk behind the scrotum – this method is more rarely used;
  • The location of an erection ring right at the base of the scrotum – on the scrotum – is considered to be quite exotic, but very effective. It turns out like-tied testicles;
  • The most powerful option is to use three rings at once, according to the options outlined above: on the scrotum, on the trunk, on the trunk for the scrotum.

Well, the last of the exotic  is the use of three rings along the length of the entire stem of the penis. With such a fixation, erection rings not only fix an erection, but also strongly stimulate the vagina.

Sexual role-playing games for lovers using sex shop goods are really able to return your relationship to the mainstream of harmony and satisfaction. Gamma of new impressions will contribute not only to the intimate side of your life, but also improves everyday relationships between partners. Women and men constantly receiving an orgasm look different. Coming to a sex shop and buying a sex toy is only part of the deal. It is necessary to imagine what kind of sex games together can arouse sexual interest.

The time has come

Nowadays almost every second person experiences dissatisfaction with their intimate life. And more often this is observed in couples who have been living together for a long time. The main cause of this problem is the monotony and routine in sex. If initially people have an interest in each other, passion, desire, etc., then over time it fades away, becomes boring, and sex no longer brings as much emotion and pleasure as it used to. This leads to dissatisfaction with both physical and life in general, irritability, and other nervous disorders. And negative emotions, as a rule, do not have the best effect on health, as well as on the relationship between men and women. Many see the solution to the problem in “on the side” connections. But, in the long run, it usually doesn’t end well. To solve this problem will help sexual games.

Where to begin

To find out what your partner partner likes or doesn’t like, what excites and what doesn’t, learn about each other’s most intimate fantasies, ideas about how it should be, how you would like to try, where you would like to try it, everything nuances. And I am sure you will be amazed at how much interesting and unknown sits in you, you will again wake up to each other’s interest and your eyes, as before, will glow with the fires of passion.

Do not be shy. You do it for your own good.

Is it really not great to take and plunge into the theater of your own passions, explosive emotions and voluptuous pleasures!

Role-playing underwear

Sex games together there may be all sorts of different. It all depends on your imagination. Well, without the appropriate attributes, which will help to penetrate and enter the right role, of course nowhere. These can be, for example, costumes or underwear. Manufacturers of sexy erotic kits give us a great opportunity to dress in anyone they want from a simple maid to a sexy stewardess or even a strict policeman. Play the sex scene, play along to one another. Men cannot resist the more modest, but no less sexy lingerie girls. A sexy game for two with a gentle gaming set with stockings or a fascinating will make your partner squeak with the desire to quickly take possession of you. And you will feel more desirable and disturbing consciousness. Try yourself as an insidious seducer.

Easy BDSM

For lovers of extreme sex games there are various lashes, handcuffs, masks, collars, strap-on, etc. Dominate, obey, everything is in your hands. Just be sure to do everything by mutual consent. It is very important. Such sex games, by the way, help shy and reticent people to open up and feel self-confidence, and make it possible for the strong and strong-willed to feel weak and defenseless. Explore yourself as a formidable master or mistress or worthless slave who unquestioningly executes all orders, and you will get a lot of emotions. The main thing is not to overdo it. In all you need to know when to stop.